Just an update...
I got a hold of the lady and she still said no, so I went through my insurance and they are going to negotiate with the other insurance, and if all else fails, then I guess it will come down to small claims court! I need my car fixed, and since I didn't damage it, I am not paying for it. So we will see how this goes...I have a feeling that this is going to be a long drawn out issue that is going to be a pain in my butt!
Well I gotta get back to work...